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๐™ฒ๐™ฟ๐šƒ. ๐™ฑ๐š๐™ฐ๐™ณ๐šˆ, ๐™น๐™พ๐™ท๐™ฝ ([personal profile] bellylanding) wrote2024-07-29 01:38 pm

KINKLIST.


kinklist
hover over * for more details. underlined kinks are ic faves. G = giving; R = receiving;
S = self; P = partner.

faves
adrenaline as aphrodisiac, against/in/on the plane, blowjobs (R), clothed sex, cockpit sex, competence kink, drunk sex*, feeding (R)*, fingering (G), fraternization/inappropriate workplace relationships, frottage, friends/comrades with benefits, giving orders, handjobs, heat/rut, moderate d/s*, pulling rank, risk of getting caught, uniforms, UST/URT, weight gain (very light, S/P)*

yes
anal sex (G), aphro (SEE NOTE)*, emeto (S*), hair pulling, leaving marks, possessiveness (S/P)

maybe/ask first
breeding, male lactation, PIV (non-FTB), pregnancy, light religious play, watersports

no
a/b/o, relationship abuse, emotional aftercare, ageplay/regression, age gaps >15y, cockwarming, cunnilingus, diapers/scat, daddy kink, ddlg/lb, dubcon, gags/blindfolds, guro, exhibitionism, humiliation/degradation, facefucking/facesitting, fisting, multiple romantic partners, noncon, overstimulation, pegging, raceplay, religious play/priest kink, sub drop, safeword use, shame, snuff, somnophilia, subspace, tentacles/xeno, threesomes, torture, rimming

notes
physical

— 6'1" and lean, almost always clean shaven, with the shadow of a mustache at most. smells faintly of aromatic pipe tobacco at times. characters who are already attuned to such things - namely as signifiers that someone might not be straight - might notice that he keeps his nails cut very short. he has a new york state accent - similarish to new york city, but audibly not the same, at least to characters from the northeastern US.
— some body hair, but not tons - mostly just on his forearms and from the navel down, with minimal chest hair. he doesn't do anything with it.
— uncut, above average in a way that's generally proportional to his height, but nothing crazy.
— for penetrative sex, he's going to be pretty insistent on wearing a condom. his only sex ed has come from the military during WWII, so he has a very healthy fear of getting VD.

preferences
— in bed, he exclusively doms, or shares power - he has zero interest in subbing for anyone. this is a purely sexual preference! he definitely has his moments in serious relationships in which he's more passive or would prefer that his partner take the lead. similarly, he absolutely still gets something out of being treated gently/fussed over a little/generally being a recipient of tenderness. he just doesn't like being told what to do when he's having sex with someone.
— for the sake of simplifying things, it's pretty safe to say he's always a top. in a committed emotional relationship with another man, he might eventually be open to trying bottoming, but right now it's a no.
— he has some serious internalized homophobia, but it's cultural, not religious. his religious stance on same gender attraction is that God's fine with it. however—
— john is catholic. he's from upstate new york and his practice of catholicism is looser and more liberal than most baptists' is in the modern american south, generally following the trend of a slightly more left-leaning interpretation of scripture in that region that persists to this day. that said, he's not like. a unitarian universalist from 2024. he calls masturbation self-abuse and generally thinks you just shouldn't even if it's not the end of the entire world if you do (just something to feel bad about until Confession), thinks sex should ideally be for procreation, etc. (but he is absolutely down to have premarital sex.)




gif credit: 4o4notf0ound (top), emmacannings (bottom) @ tumblr